Dear DEIDRE: When I met my boyfriend, I knew he was going through a divorce. But it will take forever. I know if I can or should wait for him.
He promised we would be together soon, but there is always a new complication that makes me impatient.
I am 30 and no tie and he He is 35 years old and he has two children.
He and his ex cannot agree on anything, be it money, children, or a house.
Plus, he still lives with her because he can't afford to move.
We get along very well, talk every day and have great sex.
He says he likes me, but if I can't wait for him or see someone else, he will understand.
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I don't know what to do.
Is it stupid to wait?
DEIDRE says: No one can predict the future. Divorce can take a long time and you cannot wait indefinitely.
Perhaps you should set a deadline, say 3 months, and decide to end the relationship if things don't change.
But it sounds like he is irresponsible to say that if you met someone else he would understand.
My support his pack , Your Lover Not Free is helpful to read.
