DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner and I usually have sex once a week but she thinks I should be able to climax at least twice.
We have been together for three years and get on really well – it’s just the sex side where we have differences. I am a man of 43, she is 41.
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I want to be able to orgasm more than once so she gets to enjoy sex more too. Maybe I should take more time over foreplay and in helping her to reach orgasm, as I sense she does not always enjoy it.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds as if most of your focus at present is on intercourse, but women often respond more to other stimulation.
Yes, take more time over foreplay. My e-leaflet Helping Your Partner Reach Orgasm explains more.
But having sex just once a week may mean you climax very quickly. If intercourse is important to you both, take a breather after the first time, and you may find you are ready to go again after all.
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