DEAR DEIDRE: IF I said the sky is blue my fiancée would say it’s red. She’s so snappy with me all the time, I’m wondering whether to call it a day.
I am 29 and she is 27. We went through a difficult patch last year and she cheated on me. I have tried to put it behind me but she seems so unhappy it brings it all back.
I suggested we call it a day but she was angry and upset, and adamant she wants us to be together. She says she isn’t seeing anyone else.
But is she being difficult because she doesn’t want to be with me or is this normal couple stuff and I’m being paranoid because of what has happened before?
We have some good times but when it’s bad we go from 0 – 100 in a minute. Do I need to work on trust or end it?
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I doubt she’s being deliberately difficult because she doesn’t want to be with you but she can’t spend the rest of her life tip-toeing round you.
Instead of being touchy, ask her for a hug whenever you feel insecure.
My e-leaflet Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help.