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I sent my ex nude pics because my boyfriend’s left me sexually frustrated — now I’m scared I’ll cheat

LOVE DROUGHT

DEAR DEIDRE: I SENT my ex photos of me naked, as I am so frustrated with my boyfriend.

I don’t want anything to happen with my ex and I’m upset that I did it. But it felt quite exciting at the time, and I liked that.

I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24.

We have been together for six months.

Previously, I have had lots of sexual partners and have always been quite sexually active.

Before we met my boyfriend had only had sex once – and that was a one-night stand.

I have been so patient and understanding but I’m frustrated as he doesn’t initiate sex and doesn’t last very long.

I don’t want to tell him what I did but I am scared I may act on my frustration and cheat.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Cheating is not the answer.

Your boyfriend probably finds it intimidating that you are more sexually experienced.

Return to basics, touching and arousing each other.

Encourage him to discover what techniques you both enjoy.

He can learn to please you and the more sex you have, the longer he will last.
My e-leaflet How To Have Great Sex can boost his confidence.

Meet 28-year-old Frankie Considine who was diagnosed with sex addiction