DEAR DEIDRE: I’M longing for my girlfriend to lock me in a chastity cage.
We’ve been together for six months and I’d like to broach the subject of my fetish. I love the idea of using one of these cages. I want her to insist I wear it then take the key with her to work.
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DEIDRE SAYS: There are some scenarios in which it could be very awkward to be locked into a chastity cage without the key.
More crucially, you need to be sure your girlfriend is happy to facilitate your fetish. If she feels pressured, it will eat into your relationship.
It shouldn’t be physically harmful but best practise first with your girlfriend – and have the key nearby. My e-leaflet on Sex Toys And Sense explains more.
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