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I’m dating two women I met online, how do I dump one without hurting her?


DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been seeing two lovely women I met on a dating app.

After juggling both for a month, I have picked the one I want to pursue a relationship with. But I’m still torn.

The other one is great too and seems to think things have progressed well, asking to come and spend the night at my flat.

She has told her family and friends all about me. I don’t have the heart to break it off in a way that might hurt her.

I am 27 while these women are both 25. Should I just tell the other one a lie so as not to hurt her feelings?

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DEIDRE SAYS: It is an ego boost to be wanted by two lovely women but don’t get involved in deceit. Just be honest as soon as possible.

Tell the one you are not choosing she is a great girl but the relationship isn’t right for you and you think it is best to end it.

My leaflet Ending A Relationship will help. Be caring but clear it is over.

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