DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS scared I’d never have kids as I couldn’t ejaculate during sex.
The only time I could climax was when I pleasured myself.
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I’m a 30-year-old guy in a relationship with a woman of 28, whom I love and want to have children with. But I was terrified this meant I was infertile.
It didn’t matter how hard I tried. When I was with her, I couldn’t orgasm and rarely managed a full erection.
I could tell how disappointed she was.
You reassured me that as I was able to masturbate normally, my issues were emotional and not physical. Your support pack Men Who Can’t Climax gave me lots of self-help techniques.
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I’m relieved to say that although my girlfriend isn’t pregnant as yet, we are having plenty of sex.
So thank you from me and my girlfriend. I no longer have any erection or ejaculation problems.
DEIDRE SAYS: Often by taking a break from sex for a couple of weeks, the man is able to stop over-thinking the issue and then normal service can resume.
Most men face this challenge at some point or other in their life. I am very pleased to have been able to help you both.