A transgender college student revealed that he was rejected by every sorority he tried to join during the student recruitment processUniversity of Alabama
Over the past two years, incoming freshmen at the University of Alabama have used social media platforms such as TikTok and Instagram to get a feel for life in Greece. We are recording attempts to join. in a process known as Alabama Rush Week or Bama Rush. As of Wednesday, hashtag #BamaRush on her TikTok he has amassed over 1.6 billion views.
During the sorority rush, students interested in joining one of the approximately 20 sorority chapters on campus are encouraged to record their outfits for the day and provide other information regarding the recruitment process. information and frequently use videos. Viral. The popularity of the social media phenomenon has sparked the production of new HBO and side documentaries.Variety confirmed that the show was hosted by the University of Alabama, Tuscaloosa.
This year, Grant Sikes was one of his such students. TikToker went viral shortly after he shared his first OOTD (Outfit of the Day) for Bama Rush in a video previously shared to the platform. this month.
But after documenting her week with her viral video of her outfit and sharing an update on the process, Sykes took to Instagram this week to take part in an on-campus sorority. I made it clear that there was no offer of.
In a lengthy post, Sikes began by thanking her friends, family, and "everyone who has been on this journey with me," telling her followers that she is her "best." I told you that I spent the time of
"Unfortunately, this chapter is over. For me, this recruiting effort is over. Being kicked out of my last home this morning during primary recruitment at the University of Alabama was It's not surprising given that out of nearly 20 chapters, all but two on the first day were dropped," Sykes wrote.The two sororities were Gamma Phi Beta and Kappa Alpha It was sheeta.
In the post, Sykes reminds people who are suffering through difficult times that "life is too short to contemplate" before reminding them that "life is too short to think about." Before recalling, he said he was hopeful for a future where "everyone, anywhere, is welcome to be themselves." About what is lost ”.
"Choose happiness and always look for the positive in life. Move on. See the good. See the bad. Expect the best. Face the worst." continued.
Sikes concludes her post by revealing that although she was not invited to join the college sorority, many "great opportunities" came her way along the way. did.
"Looking back over the past week, I have had so many great opportunities. In my first application, I paid tribute to my grandmother, who passed away from Alzheimer's disease this year. "Nana, this is just the beginning,"
in video shared on TikTok , Sikes also detailed his experience of being excluded from the hiring process, explaining that TikToker received a call informing them of the decision. Because I wanted to be part of it, and more than that, I wanted to be part of the community," she told her more than 114,000 followers.
Sikes then informs her that it was a mistake and that she has been invited to "Bid Day", the last day of sorority recruitment for potential new members to become official members. I admitted that I wanted a phone call. of the sorority for which they received bids.
"I don't know what to say," Sykes continued. "Thank you so much for following me and thank you for all your love and support. I love you,"
in the caption of the video, which has since gained over 2.2 million views. , Sikes added: It really means a lot. "
In response to Sikes' update, assuring the college student that her followers on both Instagram and her TikTok have shared messages of support and found community through her media social .
"You found community and sisterhood here. Thank you for taking me with you," one wrote, while another wrote, "I love you, you can always be my sister." Some people were
"Acknowledge your community is here. Keep posting and sharing about your life. We're not going anywhere," wrote someone else.
Other viewers took the opportunity to denounce the sorority's "outdated" rush process, suggesting that Greek life in college can be "toxic."
"Hug Grant. The rushed process isn't fair to everyone, it's outdated. We love you so much and you're never alone," one said. I am writing.
Another said: You'll thrive without it,' while someone else added, 'Sorry. We hope we can."
The Independent reached out to Sikes and the University of Alabama for comment.
