DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner tells me he loves me but I suspect he thinks I’m just part of the furniture.
He won’t have sex with me. I pleasured him at the beginning of the year but he didn’t reciprocate and that was our last sex session.
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It was his 40th birthday recently.
I cooked a lovely meal, dressed up and we had an expensive bottle of wine, but he just wanted to slob about and watch television.
If I tell him how much I want to have sex with him he just says, “I know” and won’t explain what he means.
I just want a proper sex life with him.
DEAR DEIDREMy lover is threatening to tell my husband about our affair unless I pay up
SWINGS & OTHER DOUBTSAfter just a year of marriage my husband has asked me to try swinging
MOVING ONI never expected to fall for someone else at my wife's funeral
DEIDRE'S CLASSIC PHOTO CASEBOOKJanice makes Cliff swear to never wear her underwear again
KISS AND HELLI'm worried I ruined my best friend's relationship by kissing her man
SEX DIVEMy wife and I finally have time to ourselves but she's suddenly gone off sex
DEIDRE SAYS: He knows something isn’t right. Maybe he is defensive or embarrassed because he has a sexual problem.
Tell him everything can be sorted if you talk about it.
Meanwhile, a good start is caressing each other, with no pressure to have sex at first. My e-leaflet on Sex-play Therapy explains.
READ DEIDRE'S CLASSIC PHOTO CASEBOOK Janice makes Cliff swear to never wear her underwear again
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