Dear DEIDRE: I have come up with the perfect solution to my girlfriend's orgasm problem: having a threesome.
I think the reason she doesn't climax with me is because my masculinity is too small.
She's not small, but it's clearly not big enough to satisfy her properly.
I am her 24 and her girlfriend she is 21. We've known each other for 4 months.
She is quite shy in bed and she doesn't like to talk about sex, but I got the impression that she had had an orgasm before.
But no matter how much I manage to be with her, she lies there bored.
I am no longer enjoying sex. I am not a selfish man. she wants to please her.
I also worry that if I can't satisfy her quickly, she will get frustrated and leave.
But it's a shame because I'm in love with her.
Occasionally, watching a little porn online, I find many women I see you getting the attention of men.
They always seem to have such phenomenal orgasms.
I need to find another man with a bigger penis than mine.
I'm not gay — I'm not interested in having sex with him, but I'm sure it would be fun to watch him have sex with her.
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Actually this idea really excites me.
Where can I find another guy to have a threesome with?
DEIDRE says: There may be some benefit to spice up your love life, but a threesome Please think twice before suggesting.
What you don't want to do is ruin your relationship.
Focus on helping your girlfriend enjoy sex with you before you break up.
Rest assured that penis size has little to do with whether a woman will reach orgasm.
Most women climax with verbal or manual stimulation of the clitoris rather than penetrative sex.
It is also very important that the woman is aroused. It's more important for the brain than the body.
So before you touch and kiss your girlfriend, make sure her girlfriend is relaxed and makes her feel good.
Have her, Ask her to show you what excites her. From your email, you are making a lot of assumptions without communication.
Good communication is the key to good sex.
If you're close enough to have sex, you should be close enough to talk.
My support pack How To Thrill A Woman In Bed can help.
