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My ex won’t let me see my ­daughter unless I pose nude for him


DEAR DEIDRE: I’M back home in Britain after escaping an abusive relationship in America.

But now my ex-husband is demanding nude webcam videos if I want to see my daughter again.

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I am 35 and was married to a 37-year-old guy in the US for four years.

I didn’t get a green card because I did not know I had to.

We had a daughter together, who is three, but my controlling ex didn’t let me have any say in her life. He soon became violent.

In the end, I got so depress­ed I fled back to England.

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I couldn’t get my daughter a passport, so I had to leave her behind.

Because I don’t have a green card, I can’t get back into America.

Now my ex is saying he won’t let me see my ­daughter unless I pose nude for him.

What can I do?

DEIDRE SAYS: Please do not pose nude for your ex – he is still trying to control you and he will only demand more, and worse. You must seek legal advice.

It must be heart­breaking not to have ­contact with your ­daughter.

Get in touch with Match Mothers, a charity that offers non-judgemental support and information to mothers who are apart from their children.
You can contact them at, 0800 689 4104.

Also, talk to your GP about counselling. See my support pack for information on this.

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