During an emotional discussion with Oprah Winfrey, the ex-FLOTUS outlined what she felt her children needed to do after they grew up in the White House. The couple have two children - Sasha and Malia. They were with them during the Obama’s eight-year stay in the White House.
Barack sealed two terms as US President between 2008 and 2016.
But speaking to Oprah during the host’s ‘2020 Vision: Your Life in Focus’ tour, Michelle made the revelation.
She said: “They cannot define themselves by looking at each other or looking at me or their dad.
“They have to take the time to get to know themselves—give themselves a moment to figure out who they want to be in the world, not who they think I want them to be, not what the rest of the world says about them, but to really think about how they want to shape their lives and how they want to move in this world.
Michelle Obama heartbreak: Ex-FLOTUS in shock demand to children - ‘Don’t look at me!’
The couple have two children - Sasha and Malia
“So, I don’t want them measuring themselves by external influences, and for young girls, that is hard to do.”
The discussion was held at the Barclay’s Centre, in Brooklyn, New York.
Michelle also reflected on her own life since leaving office.
She continued: “The next phase of my journey of becoming is really continuing to make sure that what I do has meaning and purpose to somebody outside of myself.
JUST IN: Melania Trump snub: Michelle Obama praised in huge blow to First Lady
Michelle Obama with Oprah Winfrey
“I want to empower the next generation of politicians, and community activists, and teachers and doctors and lawyers.
“I want to be a part of laying out a set of values and principles that we can all be proud of; of this country.”
It comes after the Obamas production company collected their first Academy Award win for best documentary.
She and husband, Barack, praised the team who created ‘American Factory’, which helped the Obamas new production team gain the prized accolade.
Michelle Obama heartbreak: Ex-FLOTUS admits needing marriage counse... (LATEST)
Michelle Obama reveals how she kept daughters safe (UPDATE)
Michelle Obama heartbreak: Ex-FLOTUS receives emotional confession (ANALYSIS)
Sasha and Malia Obama in 2016
It is a film that explores the decline of manufacturing jobs in the Midwest.
The documentary won in the best feature-length doc at the glitzy ceremony earlier this month.
And, after the win was announced, Michelle took to social media to pay the emotional tribute.
She wrote: “Congrats to Julia, Steven, and the whole crew on winning Best Documentary for #AmericanFactory, Higher Ground's first release!
“So glad to see their heart and honesty recognised—because the best stories are rarely tidy or perfect.
“But that's where the truth so often lies.”