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I want to kill a guy from work who had sex with my girlfriend and abused her

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DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to punch a guy who had sex with my girlfriend then abused her.

The three of us worked together two years ago. She’s 26 and very pretty. I’m a guy of 28 and our colleague is 31. He knew I had feelings for her but I didn’t want to rush it.


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When her mum moved, she needed a place to live. There was a spare room where this other guy was staying. She moved in and drew away from me, though she said they were just housemates.

After I changed jobs, I lost touch with her, but I ran into her on a night out early this year. This time, I made a move and she’s been living with me since the start of lockdown.

We’re great together but she’s admitted having a sexual relationship with this guy. She left when he got physically abusive and controlling. I’d like to kill him.

DEIDRE SAYS: What matters is that she left your abusive ex-colleague and is with you now. Don’t poison your relationship by obsessing over something that happened a year or so ago and that she handled assertively herself. Beat up a pillow instead of that guy then focus on telling your girlfriend how much you love and cherish her.

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