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I’m horrified after discovering my husband flirting with one of our employees on CCTV

CAUGHT RED HANDED

DEAR DEIDRE: I DISCOVERED my husband was flirting with one of our employees when I checked the CCTV.

He was touching her and I was horrified. When I showed him the evidence, he said it was a one-off and would not happen again.

We are both 44 and run our own farm shop, with a couple of women working for us.

I’ve let the one involved keep her job but I now check on her and my husband.

If I am honest, I don’t love my husband any more.

He drinks and gets nasty. But I don’t have the means to leave him.

If I walked out, I would lose everything and so would my ten-year-old son.

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DEIDRE SAYS: If his actions were unwanted, he could face sexual-assault charges.

Tell your husband his behaviour will end your marriage unless he makes a serious effort to change.

Stopping drinking would be a start and he can find help through Drinkline (0300 123 1110).

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