DEAR DEIDRE: I DISCOVERED my husband was flirting with one of our employees when I checked the CCTV.
He was touching her and I was horrified. When I showed him the evidence, he said it was a one-off and would not happen again.
We are both 44 and run our own farm shop, with a couple of women working for us.
I’ve let the one involved keep her job but I now check on her and my husband.
If I am honest, I don’t love my husband any more.
He drinks and gets nasty. But I don’t have the means to leave him.
If I walked out, I would lose everything and so would my ten-year-old son.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If his actions were unwanted, he could face sexual-assault charges.
Tell your husband his behaviour will end your marriage unless he makes a serious effort to change.
Stopping drinking would be a start and he can find help through Drinkline (0300 123 1110).
My e-leaflet Thinking Of Separation Or Divorce? explains sources of support for you, if need be.