Dear Diddle: I'm worried that I'll lose my job after finding my boss watching porn in my work van.
I am a 38 year old man and I am married to a gorgeous woman. She is 36 years old We get along well and have a sexual life.
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We have sex several times a week, but to be honest, we want it every day.
During the blockade, when both of us were working from home, we had sex several times a day, but now we're back at work and my wife is traveling a little longer, so be patient. Have to. There is little sex.
So I started watching more porn. Without her, that's what I do first when I get home, and I can't fall asleep without it either.
She knows I'm looking at it, which is causing controversy.
She was horrified to find a hiding place for my porn video recently.
She said she wanted to see her when she was absent, but the mustard didn't cut. She said she would leave unless I stopped, so I vowed to cut.
I work in a big butcher as a delivery driver.
Last week my wife was out for work, but she was told she had to stay another night because she was going home. I got angry because she promised a night of her passion when she came back.
The more I thought about it, the more I wanted her house.
I felt it was very on.
While waiting in the van for the cargo to be ready, I decided to browse my favorite adult site on my cell phone. I must have been crazy because I didn't notice my boss approaching.
He opened the door and looked very shocked to see what was on my phone.
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I was very embarrassed.
Now he's gone on vacation, but he says he'll talk to me when he comes back. If he is fired, he loses everything.
DEIDRE SAYS: You are in a catastrophe, so try slowing down.
You are a good employee, so I apologize to my boss.
Realize that it is a completely inappropriate behavior and reassure him that he will never do it again.
More importantly, we see this as a sign that we need to curb the use of pornography.
Many people see it without any negative impact, but when something started ruining other important parts of our lives, it became addictive. It's a sign of that.
You don't want to lose your job or your wife, so you need to start taking this seriously. The best route is to go to Cold Turkey and fill your life with other interests.
My Support Pack Internet Porn Concerns will explain how to kick this habit so you can enjoy a good relationship again.
