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I can’t shake my promiscuous ex out of my system and I know why


DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T shake my promiscuous ex out of my system and I know why.

She is 26 and I am 28. Our relationship was based purely on sex. We were together for almost a year but split up six weeks ago.

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I discovered she’d cheated on me after finding some messages on her phone. She was unaware I knew. She suffers with bipolar disorder and I know it can cause promiscuity. She has been in touch in the meantime and we have had phone sex. 

We then arranged to have a proper get together for sex, but she has since gone cold on the idea.

I really don’t understand why I can’t shake her. I wasn’t in love with her.

She was selfish, self-centred, thoughtless and inconsiderate but our sex life was incredible.

DEIDRE SAYS: Being deceived is hard to take but it doesn’t sound like sex was all you really wanted with her. 

Perhaps you would have preferred a proper relationship and settled for sex because that was all she was offering.

Either way she sounds to be calling it a day and you’re disillusioned with her. Cutting your losses is your best bet. My support pack Moving On will help you.

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