DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN it comes to sex, I am so shy. In fact if I am honest, I don’t actually know what to do.
I’ve been with my partner for a year and we are very happy. It is just that I am clueless about sex. I am 27 and my boyfriend is 29.
He says he knows there is more hiding inside me just waiting to be released and that he can’t wait for that to happen.
I really want to, but I feel nervous. I am not very experienced.
I have only had one previous relationship and have never had a one-night stand as I don’t agree with just sleeping around.
I’ve looked online but I guess I’m a bit prudish.
I worry that my boyfriend may find someone else if I can’t please him.
first cut Caught my girl in bed with another man... then he did something I didn't expect
SEX WITH SISTER I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
HOTEL HELL My girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myself
Little secret My brother-in-law is my daughter's real father... and my husband has no idea
More, more, more! Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
FAMILY AFFAIR Family are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in law
Guilty sex I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
Blackmailed I've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
anti-climax Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
FESTI-FAIL I had hot sex at Glastonbury... but I was the 20th guy she'd bedded that weekend
TOUGH CHOICE I'm having sex with my girlfriend's bestie... who's also dating my best mate
DEIDRE SAYS: Good sex is really about communication and takes practice.
Ask your boyfriend to show you what touches really work for him and if there is anything he would especially enjoy.
My e-leaflet Too Shy In Bed? explains – but only try what you find pleasurable yourself or it won’t work for either of you.
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