DEAR DEIDRE: LAST night my boyfriend was trying to reassure me I’m not ugly – but admitted he finds other women more beautiful than me.
I am 19 and he’s 20. After quizzing him on who he thinks is gorgeous, he then revealed Kylie Jenner is his “dream woman”.
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I know he wasn’t being nasty but his words have left me feeling unattractive.
He should think I am the most beautiful, otherwise what is he doing with me?
DEIDRE SAYS: Looking at another person and recognising that they are good-looking does not mean you don’t find your own partner attractive.
I’m sure you are able to look at Tom Hardy and see he’s good-looking without it detracting from how you feel about your boyfriend.
In reality, people are attracted to one another because of personality and chemistry – not just physical appearance.
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I am sending you my support pack on self-esteem to help.
Try to concentrate on your own relationship, or you could inadvertently push your boyfriend away.