DEAR DEIDRE: A GUY I have been seeing for the past six weeks suddenly cut me off the morning after we had been out for dinner.
We were getting on really well. He seemed a really lovely, kind and caring person. I am 33 and he is 36.
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We had enjoyed a great night and he kissed me and dropped me off at my flat. He messaged me when he got home saying, “Goodnight, sweetheart.”
But the next day, he’d blocked my number and now I can’t contact him.
I went to his house and knocked on the door but he didn’t come out. I know he was in because his car was outside.
I don’t know what to do or think.
DEIDRE SAYS: How horrible. The way he has behaved is about him, not you. Maybe he feels threatened when a relationship looks as if it might turn serious – and backs off.
But he handled it very nastily. He should have had the decency to speak to you, not just leave you wondering and worrying.
You are better off without someone who can treat you like this. My e-leaflet Moving On will help.